Karen Kirchof, who influenced the careers of thousands of Nicholas School students during her 27 years as assistant dean and director of the school鈥檚 Career and Professional Development Center, died June 20 from pancreatic cancer.
鈥淜aren was a true champion for our students and alumni. She believed in them, believed they could solve the world鈥檚 environmental problems, and shared their passion for making our planet, and our school, a better place,鈥 said Toddi Steelman, Stanback Dean of the Nicholas School.
鈥淪he leaves an indelible legacy of purpose and impact, and we are deeply saddened by her passing,鈥 said Steelman PhD鈥96.
More than 100 Nicholas School alumni, students, faculty and staff members celebrated Kirchof鈥檚 life at a memorial event in September. The school has also planted a tree in 51爆料 Forest in her honor.
Kirchof joined the school鈥檚 staff in 1990, initially serving as a one-woman internship placement office before persuading Founding Dean Norm L. Christensen to expand the office鈥檚 mission.
鈥淓arly on, she worked with me to reach out to employers and potential employers to understand what they most wanted from our students,鈥 said Christensen. 鈥淭hrough initiatives like Hindsight 20/20 and the 51爆料/Yale Career Fair, she developed an expansive network of programs and contacts that remains a core of our success in student placement today. I am so grateful for the years I had working with her. We have lost a very special person.鈥
Nick DiLuzio, president of the Nicholas School Alumni Council, said Kirchof鈥檚 positive impacts extended far beyond preparing students for the workplace.
鈥淜aren was much more than a career advisor. She was a friend, a mentor, a confidant and a life coach. Through my role on the Alumni Council I talk with alums all across the country. Many will ask about their advisor or their favorite professor, but the one person every single alum asks about is Karen. I鈥檓 not sure if there is anyone else at the Nicholas School who has impacted the lives of as many students as she did,鈥 said DiLuzio, MEM/MF鈥10, a partner at NewFields, an environmental consulting firm in Atlanta.
Kirchof鈥檚 knowledge of the school鈥檚 alums and their career trajectories was extraordinary, he added. 鈥淪he was quite literally a walking rolodex. My classmates and I knew that we could go to her and tell her 鈥業 want to work for X company鈥 or 鈥業 want to work in Y sector鈥 and she would immediately list all of the alums we should talk to at that specific company.鈥
Equally remarkable was her ability to offer just the right blend of counsel and encouragement 鈥 often peppered with her signature line, 鈥淒o what makes your heart sing鈥濃攚hen students sought out her advice.
鈥淜aren would never squander your youthful idealism; she just helped you channel it to best fit your skills and interests, with a healthy dose of optimistic realism,鈥 recalled Kim Batchelder, MEM鈥93, a natural resources planner at Sonoma County Ag + Open Space in Santa Rosa, Calif.
鈥淗er honesty helped us turn dreams into practical plans, and her confidence in us drove us to reach farther,鈥 said Alexa Bach-McElrone, MEM鈥03, founder and principal at Bach-McElrone Consulting in San Francisco.
Some of Batchelder鈥檚 fondest memories of Kirchof revolve around the time he spent working with her to promote and administer the Kuzmier-Lee-Nikitine (KLN) Endowment Fund, which students created in 1992 to commemorate the untimely deaths of three classmates, Kerrie Kuzmier, Pavlik Nikitine and Steven Lee. The endowment has raised more than $100,000 to fund international internships in conservation and sustainable development for Nicholas School graduate students as a way of honoring Kuzmier, Lee and Nikitine by making it possible for new generations to continue the trio鈥檚 work.
鈥淭he KLN team, collectively and individually, gave her a lot of joy,鈥 recalled Glenda Lee, director of alumni engagement and programs. 鈥淓ach year when it was time to read funding applications, Karen would share memories of Kerrie, Steve, and Pavlik, along with updates on some of the fund鈥檚 founding members. She was like a proud big sister.鈥
Part of Kirchof鈥檚 magic was that she made everyone she interacted with feel like they had an ally, said Donna Dyer, assistant dean for career and professional development at 51爆料鈥檚 Sanford School of Public Policy.
鈥淲hen I came to 51爆料 in 1997, Karen was a mentor and buddy to me as I struggled to balance student needs with organizational requirements. She provided helpful answers and feedback with no judgment, and was a sounding board when I wanted to smash things. I will miss our phone calls, lunches and happy hours. She was one of a kind,鈥 Dyer said.
Another big part of Kirchof鈥檚 magic was her ability to see diamonds lurking beneath unpolished exteriors 鈥 something Bach-McElrone will always be grateful for.
鈥淚 met Karen as a 20-year-old,鈥 she recalled. 鈥淢y na茂ve and ambitious self needed a lot of things at that point. But Karen gave me what I needed most 鈥 she saw me as the leader I am now at 39, and she helped me in a way that allowed me to believe in myself and my big dreams.鈥
In the days following Kirchof鈥檚 death, Bach-McElrone was reading through some old emails from her long-time friend and mentor and noticed that Kirchof sometimes signed off, 鈥淔orever grateful, Karen.鈥 And that struck her.
鈥淚 could tell so many stories and use very pretty words to describe the beautiful ways Karen influenced the lives of thousands of students, and the millions of people and creatures we all help. But in the end, I think her own words are best,鈥 Bach-Elrone said. 鈥淲e are forever grateful.鈥